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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't say men can compartmentalize, in fact every cheater I know at the moment is a wife and there are heaps of them.

My friends wife cheated because she felt unloved, needed to feel attractive.  She got caught, he forgave, she cheated again even took the kids to spend time with the boyfriend and he again stayed with her.

Why, because he doesn't want to give up time with his kids.  He now travels with the kids or alone, she stays home and works.  He spends all his free time taking the kids to sports and enjoying it, she works.  He has no respect for her and just waiting until the kids are older to leave.  She makes more money so at the moment it all goes in the bank to be split later.  He now cheats as well.  He has a reason to stay that works for him, she is a room mate that is there to help pay the bills and clean.  No one cares that she gets treated like rubbish because he spent 20 years bending over backwards to be there for her, help her, help with the kids, took care of housework, they had lovely family holidays together, he spoke so highly of her.  Honestly the only compartmentalizing I see men doing is relegating their cheating spouse into the background.

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