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[quote=Anonymous]If the tracking is of some interest, I started keeping track in 2012.

2012: 37.
2013: 29.
2014: 30.
2015: 21.
2016: 14.

Prior to 2012, I think it was quite a bit lower. We had a 2 month stretch in the beginning of 2012 that freaked me out. So, I started keeping track and tried initiating more. 50 Shades of Gray came out, and that really spiked things in May and June (14x in those two months). Then in July, things faded (only once), and I got a little in my head about sex at that point. I was afraid things were going to go back to the bad old days. And I counter-productively bitched about her turning me down at one point. That's when we had a serious talk about what was bugging me.

The talk was honest, but I can't say that I feel like it did much good. After that, she seemed to feel pressured when I tried initiating frequently and the sex was up. On the flip side, when sex was infrequent, now I knew she was fully aware of how I felt and was more or less ignoring those feelings.

But, the substantial decline tells me that we probably have to have another serious talk and come up with a strategy.

FWIW, I shower, brush my teeth, and wear a suit pretty much every day;  have a 21.6 BMI; and can run a half marathon in just under 2 hours. So, I'm not Brad Pitt or anything, but basic fitness and hygiene shouldn't be an issue.

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