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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fine for you to stay in a hotel. What's the backstory here? I'm guessing there's a history which contributed to why she's upset?[/quote]

Maybe she had happy images of you all in the kitchen together or special moments shared late in the evening over drinks? Your staying at a hotel may signify to her a withdrawal from the event. She's angry and sad that her thoughts about you guys playing with her kids, a house full of laughter and family have been taken away from her.

Money is never money. Time is never time. This hotel is not just a hotel. It means something else.

Bring an activity you can do with the kids, and a bottle of something you guys can share after they're in bed. It'll announce that you're only going to the hotel for sleep. You'll be there for morning coffee. You'll be part of the team, part of the family.

She's probably so stressed out trying to bring this beautiful vision into being that your email hit her hard. Be kind, if you can.
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This may be true, but the email she sent OP was completely inappropriate and out of line.[/quote]

And, you've NEVER said something in the heat of the moment that you've come to regret? Never felt abandoned and lashed out? Congrats on living a charmed life.
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Did I miss where the sil reached out to express regret for her heat of the moment email?[/quote]

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