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[quote=Anonymous]Look your bickering aside, this is why some people find it so hard to move on from divorce. They become consumed with ruining the AP's life or making sure they get their comeuppance, or making sure their kids somehow find out their other parent is a cheater so they can "know the truth." The reality is that DOES NOT MATTER, nor does it help anyone heal and move on. It keeps you stuck in an endless negative feedback loop. Truthfully, some people cheat and never face real terrible repercussions. They go on and live happy lives and their children love them. So while that's happening, do you want to be the bitter ex spouse still endlessly waiting for the bad stuff to finally happen, or do you want to be the happy ex who also moved on and has a great new life as well? [/quote]
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