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[quote=Anonymous]Have him explain it to them. I mean you're there, but let him try to explain ... and be very uncomfortable ... and suffer. It is fine for you to be quiet. It is fine for you to be the hurt spouse. It is fine for them to see you as an (almost) silent victim. He broke up the family. Let him try to explain it to them. Let him try. Op, their degree of unhappiness is not going to be fixed by you. You, of course, don't need to add to it. I know you wouldn't disparage him in front of them. He is their father BUT they have a right to think it's his fault. They have a right to feel this in their gut. DO NOT mess with their emotional antenna on this issue - they need to trust their intuition. They need it intact, for their own wellbeing and judgement, later in life.[/quote]
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