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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here....I'm not really talking about communication or lack thereof. I have no problem expressing what I want. My problem is DH just flat out says "that's not what I want to do". Other than this, he isn't selfish in any way at all. I don't think he has bad intentions. I think it's a combination of lack of knowledge how women work, embarrassment that he can't get it right, and he has this idea that women think it's sexy to be bossed around in bed (which may be true, but not in the way he does it). [/quote] If that's not what he wants to do, then you have every right not to do what he wants to do either. He wants PIV? Tough. He wants a BJ? You don't want to do that. Until he can learn to reciprocate, then don't participate. You cannot allow someone to be so selfish in bed and continue to have sex with you. It's not good for you- you are not a real doll![/quote]
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