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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again - DH gets very angry also asking about who I have told - which family, friends, etc. - I've of course needed to rely on some of my best friends to get me through this tough time, but they are people who are encouraging me on ways to save my marriage --- I feel like I understand his desire for the secret not to get "out" but that also deprives me of the benefit of support from my dearest friends and family that I need right now.  I also feel like actions have consequences, and he isn't ready to attribute accountability for himself for his behavior.[/quote]

It is your right to tell who you need to and get the support you need. It's his own problem if he doesn't want his image tarnished - he shouldn't have cheated and lied if he didn't want that said about him. He is turning things around and blaming you when he is to blame for this situation. Don't fall into his trap. You are correct that his actions have consequences and he is now reaping those. He needs to live with himself and his consequences.[/quote]

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