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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what are you doing to make her know you still desire her? What I would want in this situation is for my husband to start courting me again. Surprise her with exciting weekends away. Show interest in HER interests. Arrange date nights. Bring flowers. Get her drunk and have outrageous sex like young people have. Not married people "oh we haven't done it in a week so might as well get it over with" sex.

At the same time, encourage her to develop a new interest or occupation outside of the children. [/quote]

This is a good idea. Give her the excitement of a new affair with YOU so that she doesn't look elsewhere for it.[/quote]

Other cultures, such as French women, do not fetishize sheer youth for the sake of youth. They believe in aging gracefully, that each age has its own beauty, and that a woman is not truly a woman until she is in her 40's. Maybe a trip to France is in order? She needs new models of aging to counterract her rigid beliefs. Or maybe an antidepressant. [/quote]

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