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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She didn't treat your daughter any way....she treated you that way. I don't see anywhere that you said she spoke sharply to your daughter, or treated her ill in any direct manner. Did she handle this gracefully? Definitely not, but that was directed towards you and your husband not towards your daughter. I think you need to re-frame your thoughts around this so that you can treat her child nicely. Maybe talk to her about how it made you feel- NICELY, and she might even apologize. [b]Being in the throes of infertility brings out the worst in people sometimes. [/b][/quote]

This is no excuse.  Sorry, you don't get to hide behind that to be an ass.

I will say this: your DD will not have any clue this happened.  But, you're upset and rightfully so. For me, I'd probably distance myself a little until I could CALMLY tell her how I felt.  She'll pull the victim routine, is my bet.  But, at least you'd have put it on the table.

I would not hold it against her child in any way.[/quote]

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