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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister planned her wedding 3 weeks before my due date.  Have you ever been measured for a matron of Honor gown while 7 months pregnant? [/quote]

Oops, I meant three weeks after my due date.  [/quote]

So you're upset that she waited until after the baby was born to have her wedding? That seems much better than being in a wedding while pregnant, and how nice that you were on maternity leave and didn't have to take more time off work to be in the wedding. Seems like she was being thoughtful to me. :)[/quote]

No, she scheduled her wedding to be three weeks after my due date.  I had no idea when the child would be born.  As it was I was 5 weeks post partum as "luckily" he arrived early.  I was not healed from the birth as it was rough with a 2+ tear one way and a 3+ tear the other.  I had stitched up and down the proverbial wazoo.  I had to fly with my newborn alone to get there and had to leave him in a hotel for the day with a babysitter until the end of the reception.  [/quote]

I'm confused.  Would you rather she have had her schedule her wedding before your due date?  Or you think that scheduling three weeks after your due date is not enough time?  How long should she have delayed her marriage so that you could feel fully healed from childbirth?[/quote]

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