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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

To answer people's questions, we are both from (different) Asian cultures. We were both born here.

To all those who are telling me to leave, can you please just tell me how the courts would see it, in terms of custody? I asked this question before - he's not abusive (physically) or verbally in the traditional sense (never uses words like idiot, stupid, shut up, curse words) or has ever done anything unethical (affair, cheating on taxes, stealing, etc.). HE GIVES FREE MEDICAL CARE TO HOMELESS PEOPLE. He comes to almost every school meeting, every performance, every game, and tries to be home for tuck-in time. He's just pedantic and inflexible and thinks his way of doing everything is the better way. How would courts see this in terms of custody? I've spoken with my cousin about this (attorney) who seemed doubtful that it would be *anything* but joint custody...

Should I just protect myself and get out, and not worry that they'll be left to be "beaten down" (emotionally) half the time without me to buffer?[/quote]

Sounds like you are married to my brother.  Poor you.  Personally, I don't know how you lasted this long.  Only piece of advise is that once the kids are a little older and more independent, try to work more hours to stay out of the house.  You can divorce once the kids leave for college.  No joint custody then.[/quote]

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