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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I said earlier it didn't sound like anxiety. I thought he sounded so calm about everything, like he's just this super efficient person in life who doesn't get why other people aren't the same way.

But from what you just described, it obviously sounds like he has some major anxiety. I[b]f he can't control something, it drives him crazy[/b].  [/quote]

The traffic example made me think. I know DC very well and my spouse is a mindless "GPS driver."  No matter if it is a common destination, a common main road route or only an exit number is needed, the GPS is on and zero planning or thought was put in how to get there in what traffic.

So yes, I am disappointed when said spouse is driving us all right into a $hit$how traffic jam or silly way we all know better than to take.  Learn!

Anyhow, my life didn't have nearly as many setbacks as it does once I got married.  I just have to get used to the two steps FW and one step backwards all the time.  It's part of being married. I get upset with it's big stuff we messed up on, but oh well.  Some people are accident prone, others have no common sense, some are too naive good samaritans and another set are overly cynical.  Try to work together and both get some self-awareness.  You both should try counseling, get advice, and practice communicating differently so there is more of a connection and more kindness. Big help. No one is the same. [/quote]

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