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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am a DW who lost libido after a baby.  I didn't mean to, it's just hard when I'm so tired and the baby is chewing on my nips all day long.  And honestly, if I offered my DH "duty sex" as you put it and he turned me down, I would understand, but sometimes that's all I can manage.  It comes from a loving place!  If he tried to do sexual things that he knows I don't like, and also complained about duty sex or how I approached him, it would really irritate me.

[b]If you know your wife doesn't like something, don't do it to her, FFS[/b].[/quote]

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This guy is so goddam dense.[/quote]

No, you morons are seriously reading-comprehension-challenged, or you just didn't bother to read my very first post.

[b]The entire premise here from the beginning is that I am not the one pushing having sex.[/b]    I responded to you with some sarcasm/snark because I thought that might tip you off that you needed to rethink it.

I'm fine with not having sex.  I'm not pushing for sex.  This is making my wife even more anxious and insecure - that is the problem.  God you are clueless.  Learn to (bother to) read...whichever applies. [/quote]

So STOP DOING IT!  Stop acting weird about this and passive aggressive.  Tell her that she doesnt have anything to worry about, that you love her.

I noticed you completely skipped over the question about whether you do nonsexual affection- guessing that's a big fat NO.

You know what i think? I think you enjoy having her walk on eggshells.

And then you phrased it as "she wants to have sex with me so bad!" which is absolutely absurd, given the followups you've given.

I think you like feeling powerful, and I think you give your wife little signals to let her know you aren't happy and resent her.

Then, when she picks up on them and it understandably worried, you act all, "OMG, why is she acting like this?  She's crazy!"

It's so blatant as to be nearly comedic.

You are a loser, OP.  Plain and simple.  Be glad your wife puts up with you. [/quote]

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