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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- I agree that I was overly picky or looking for the wrong things until I was at least 37. I just didn't want to settle and I'm glad I didn't. But my choices also mean I probably won't ever have my own kids. Weird thing is that I don't feel too sad about that? Maybe the PPs are right that subconsciously maybe I've just wanted to be alone until now. I spent so many years travelling the world and living a kind of selfish life and I don't regret any of that. Maybe if I'd found the one earlier I'd be regretting not seeing the world. But now I'm ready to meet someone and hope it's still possible. Maybe therapy would help?  [/quote]

You sound overly focused on yourself.  [/quote]

how is that overly focused on herself? she is living life on her terms. it is her life. she is not hurting anyone in the process. [/quote]

Men don't like when women don't pay attention to them. [/quote][b]

OP here- Ahhhhh!! That's what my brother said. He said he'd never date a woman like me, because I don't 'need' him. My mom says I'm independent to a fault. But that's why I thought maybe therapy as I'm willing to examine myself and change, if that's what's holding me back from meeting the right person.[/quote]

You don't need therapy.  You sound awesome.

Have a kid and raise one on your own if you really want to.  If not, just be happy being on your own and not having to clean up after a man baby![/quote]

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