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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is a very sad post. [/quote]

I agree. You need to dump his sorry ass before addressing OW. Look at Rupert Murdoch and Wendi Deng.[/quote]

Op doesn't need to step aside if she doesn't want to.  Maybe there are benefits to her remaining married.  After all, she IS the one who is actually married to the man, right? He is Op's husband, right? And why on earth would she ever address the OW?  Ha. Not likely.[/quote]
Well, she seems to be trying to address OW right now. And it is sad.[/quote]

She is probably wondering why a woman would settle for being an OW.  I think the main answer is that they want the companionship and the passion without the commitment and the work.  They can't really respect their AP's marriage because they are willing to accept so much less for themselves.  [/quote]
If it were me I'd have trouble respecting the person's marriage because they have no respect for it and they are in it![/quote]

But in this case the wife hasn't done anything wrong.  She is the one being cheated on.  OW is never going to come off looking good in that situation.  It is what it is.[/quote]

This is a wrong assumption... You have NO idea if the wife has or has not done anything wrong. You have no idea how she treats her husband, if she is cold and abusive, if she lies, overspends, if they were separated... NO IDEA under what circumstances the cheating occurred and while I do understand that cheating is never okay - the behaviors that LEAD UP TO the affair/cheating are usually equally the fault of BOTH the wife and the husband.

Don't neglect one another and don't assume it won't happen just because you took a vow. YOU are still responsible for maintaining your marriage and if you are treating your husband like shit he is going to end up cheating.[/quote]

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