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[quote=Anonymous]^^ PP, I think your situation may have been a little different since you were fairly emotionally compromised.  I'm not justifying that you considered the idea of remaining with a married man, which you say you eventually decided against, but I think that you were in a particularly emotionally raw state.

Unless OP's sister was similarly abused, I don't see how she could become so emotionally attached to a man she spent 4 weeks with.  Let's say she saw him every day, which is highly unlikely since he is married with a kid.  According to OP, this guy has a job.  Assuming he works a regular 9-5, OP's sister is seeing him in the flesh a maximum of 3-4 hours per weekday from 5 pm to 9 pm, and that's assuming he's totally derelict in his husband and father duties such that he's not ever around for dinner on the weekdays.  He has to spend the nights at home and he has to eat breakfast at home.  So we're down to 3-4 hours max during the weekdays.  Then assume that on the weekends, same thing, he's home for breakfast and bed, but with sister the entire weekend day, which, again, is extremely unlikely with a wife and child, but let's assume he's with sister from 9-9 on weekends.  He most likely spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and New Years with his wife and child.  Even if he's not religious, he probably can't come up with an excuse for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  So, in grand total, assuming this working husband with a child is spending ALL of his free time with sister, she has known him for a grand total of 176 hours.  That is not enough time to fall so head over heels for someone that you lose sight of what is right and what is wrong.  [/quote]

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