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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I would keep the phone and see what else he sends.  Maybe respond to his text.  "Great!"  and see what else he sends.

If you take it away tell the other family members it is "lost".  Keep losing the phones.

Yes you have to listen to your spidey sense.

And as another poster said, most grown men are not interested in having relationships with 11 year old girls.  [b]Most nice men I know give the kid a pat on the head and then benignly ignore her.  They are interested in football and maybe politics, not someone else's kid.  
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Definite creep vibe.  [/quote]

Most nice grandfathers, or men who have wanted to be grandfathers and are about to become grandfathers, are nice to children and enjoy spending time with them. Maybe this is a cultural thing?

Are all men seriously just into sports and politics in your life, pp? What about men who work with children? doctors? etc?

OP, can you tell us more about old Pap. What does he do professionally? have you checked him out online? [/quote]

He's retired now. I don't know what he did for a living, but his daughter had a MC upbringing. I did Google his name, but it is very common like Joseph Pretty-Common-Italian last name.[/quote]

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