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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the term "baby girl" something that is culturally acceptable?  I know if I told my ex someone called our dad baby girl he would be all over it. It is not a phrase either of us or our friends use.[/quote]

First, OP, I pretty much don't fully trust any man including all family members who come into contact with my daughters for the reasons you are concerned about so please read the following knowing that.

I'm wondering the same thing about culture. The OP mentioned culture when she told us about the clothing that stepmother to-be bought for daughter so I'm wondering, are they southern maybe? or from a non-english speaking country where "baby girl" could mean something else translated?

I don't have a child old enough to text but I don't think I would think that a text from grandpa is necessarily grooming. I have a step niece and I'm pretty sure my dad would text her if she had a phone. He's not a sexual predator. I also find it weird that so many PPs said it's always weird if an older man shows attention to a 10 year old girl ("they usually pat them on the head and are into sports and politics"...don't you know any old grandpa figures that enjoy spending time with grandkids??). What I am saying is, OP, definitely be vigilant about this and let step grandpa know that the phone is not acceptable but don't jump to the conclusion that he is grooming your daughter. [/quote]

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