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[quote=Anonymous]You sound like my SIL (DH's sister).  She is endlessly embarrassed by my DH because he isn't as put together as she would like.  She is incredibly vain and looking good is her top priority.  She looks great!  And is an incredibly difficult person to be around because she is so self absorbed.

She used to try to give me tips about how to spruce up my DH.  Sometimes she wasn't far off, I did encourage him to think a bit more about his wardrobe.  But honestly, he's FINE.  He's charming and funny and loving and kind and smart and a top notch partner and father.  Those things matter much more to me than whether or not his face is "too shiny".  We are well matched and that's what matters most to ME.  That doesn't matter to her though, because we don't look perfect.

I feel bad for her.  She lives a lonely life.  But she looks perfect in all her Facebook selfies!

OP, you sound disgusted by your DH.  This will only get worse as you both get older and he starts caring even less than he does now.  Leave him and find someone better suited for you.  This will never work out.  Never.  You can not have a fulfilling relationship with someone you are this critical of.  There is a woman out there who would find all this endlessly charming.  Let him go find her.[/quote]

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