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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]to the OP.  I could have written a very similar post.  I am a little further into my relationship and kids are older elementary school age.  throw in long term unemployment.  it is so hard to stay with someone whom I don't respect.  I also don't trust him -- due to some addictions (legal ones) and some lying (no adultery).  It is hard because he is sweet and a good father.  he is just highly inefficient and incapable and slow to act/decide.

We have been in a very rough patch for a few years now.  I don't really know where it will go, but divorce is certainly a strong possibility.  Currently, we are both in our own therapy.

Big hugs to you![/quote]

Op here and I am so sorry you're going though a similar situation. I truly feel like I have given my all to my family and marriage, and cannot fathom giving up on DH. But I think that's the hardest part, eg, not Knowing when to throw in the towel. I am not there yet but getting close. Am trying to see the positives and lower expectations. But I don't have trust issues with DH. Just lazy and unmotivated issues. It's hard when you want to provide better for your family but have roadblocks at every turn. And criticism.

Respect is such an important part of a marriage and I share your frustration. You are not alone. Hugs![/quote]

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