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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.  Pp who said that men have each other's backs is completely right. I have learned that men support and enable each other in ways that women never would. I cannot think of a single girlfriend of mine who would cover for me, much less meet and hang out with the other man, if I was married and pretending to be single.

PP who is acting confused about how what happened  to me and other women in this thread is different from discovering that your casual date is dating others: please just stop. First of all, we were monogamous. I have no idea why you think one has to be hanging out with a man's family regularly and practically living in the small town where he's originally from in order to expect monogamy. Your posts are just so weird.[/quote]

While I agree that you were cheated by a truly depraved asshole, just a warning, not all men "have each other's backs" and will hide things for their friends.  Likewise, not all women will rat out their girlfriends.  I've actually known more women cheaters who got away for longer because their girlfriends covered for them than guys.  The cheating women would be "out shopping with Sally" and Sally would cover and say they were shopping when she was with her beau.  Another got several friends who helped propogate the lie that they had a regular "girls night out" on a night when she had a regular date with the boyfriend while leaving the husband home with the kids.  The guys that I know who were cheaters got cut off from their friends.  The guy friends did not tell, but they also just started avoiding the cheater who became fairly friendless.  That is another one of those telltales, when a guy starts dating you and starts to lose his friends.  If he had friends who start to avoid him or have less time for him when you're dating that may be a sign that the friends are just avoiding him and his situation.[/quote]

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