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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tell my friend if her DH was cheating on her, if I knew that he was planning to leave her and clear out the bank account. Or he had taken out a huge life insurance on her and was seen talking to a known mafia person. Or if I suspected some other disaster of that nature was headed her way because he wanted to cause her or her children harm. I would also confront the DH and let him know that I know and would tell his wife if he did not tell her/mend his way etc. But, I would never hurt someone's wife if I was the OW (even unwittingly). I would certainly tell the next prospective "victim" of this guy though. I would tell if a man was cheating on someone who he planned to marry. I would tell if it was my close friend or my sister. In the case of OP, her motive is that of hurting and revenge. S[b]he is hurting an innocent woman for a wrong that OP committed with someone's DH[/b]. There is a big difference when this information comes from a place of understanding, concern and compassion vs. a place of anger, hurt and revenge. ' [/quote] Where do you read that? The man lied to her. How did she commit " a wrong with someone's DH"? The DH is the one who committed the wrong -- two wrongs, actually -- first he cheated on his wife, and second he duped the OP into sleeping with him by lying to her.[/quote]
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