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[quote=Anonymous]I would tell my friend if her DH was cheating on her, if I knew that he was planning to leave her and clear out the bank account. Or he had taken out a huge life insurance on her and was seen talking to a known mafia person. Or if I suspected some other disaster of that nature was headed her way because he wanted to cause her or her children harm. I would also confront the DH and let him know that I know and would tell his wife if he did not tell her/mend his way etc. But, I would never hurt someone's wife if I was the OW (even unwittingly). I would certainly tell the next prospective "victim" of this guy though. I would tell if a man was cheating on someone who he planned to marry. I would tell if it was my close friend or my sister. In the case of OP, her motive is that of hurting and revenge. She is hurting an innocent woman for a wrong that OP committed with someone's DH. There is a big difference when this information comes from a place of understanding, concern and compassion vs. a place of anger, hurt and revenge. ' [/quote]
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