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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are the other woman, do not tell the wife.  She will never believe you.  She'll just think you are a crazy stalker.

If you are the wife's sister, or life-long best friend, then yes, go ahead and tell.

If you are both the other woman and the wife's sister/best friend,  you are a total loser bitch.[/quote]

+1  Totally agree.  As for the part about you being the OW you totally deserve whatever the wife throws at you if you tell.  And the OW who tells the wife out of spite is also a total loser bitch.  
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Do you agree that there is woman who wants to tell out of spite and there is a woman who wants to tell because she might want to the wife to know the extent of the lies and to know she's being lied to and that the situation wasn't what she was told it was, and that it is not coming out of spite but out of feeling aware of just how crazy of a situation the husband had created after looking back.[/quote]

No. The OP is clearly he OW. The wife already knows he cheated. The OW wants to tell the wife the extent of the affair to make herself feel better, to explain that she is not all bad because they had an apartment together. She thinks if the wife knows "the whole story" she will kcik him out. The PW wants revenge on her AP.

That is why the OP/OW should not tell.[/quote]

Do you have this thread confused with another thread? In this thread, the OP didn't willingly have an affair with a married man -- he lied to her. The emotions you ascribe to the OP make no sense whatsoever.[/quote]

The husband had a condo and no, it was not "an apartment they had together". No one wants revenge and if it telling the wife wasn't a difficult decision to make and it was all about revenge and spite there would be no reason to ask opinions and other points of view. Cmon.[/quote]

All APs lie. Most sexy they are leaving their up horrible wife. All OW think they know "the whole story" but they don't. The wife knows he cheated, the OW's information does not add value to the wife.

The OW was used and abused, got to counseling, focus on yourself, get away from this toxic situation. Don't enter a committed relationship until you have met the family/friends.[/quote]

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