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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Y[b]ou are stewing and fretting over something that will likely never happen. [/b] But just the fact that you are second guessing your sister and her wishes like this might be the reason why she designated someone else to be her children's legal guardian.[/quote]

The choice has been made, regardless of what happens or doesn't happen. The choice hurt OP's feelings.  She's brooding over what she thinks her sibling's choice says about her.

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It sounds as though Op admits that she has struggled with PPD and work-life balance.  Are there also money issues?

More than likely, Op's sister has seen Op struggle and simply understands that Op has a lot on her own plate already and doesn't really need anything else. We all have our limits. This friend on the other hand could more readily adapt to the enormous challenge of caring for grieving, orphaned children. Hopefully, this will never be an issue.

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There are no money issues and the PPD has mostly resolved.  The work-life balance is simply because I work, and her friend doesn't.

And yes, her friend told my sister she doesn't like me because I'm not "fun" and ruined the party by being an "uptight bitch". [/quote]

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