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[quote=Anonymous]Thank you again for the advice. I don't want to read the art of cross examination. I want peace in my life, some quiet. I don't want to argue, I don't want to fight. I don't want to expend any more energy trying to figure out if he is lying. At this point, I am done with that. If his lips are moving he is lying.

Him: My meeting ran late and I missed the train by 5 minutes!Do you believe it? next one is is in 20 m.
Me: that stinks, dinner is here, I'm going to run out and  go food shopping.
Him: okay I will see you in about an hour. 
I get home at 7, he gets home at 9. He is very talkative and starts talking about his meeting which was accidentally in a bar. It was an accident because while he was talking he mentioned how good his fish tacos were.
Me: you ate dinner?
Him: I didn't eat dinner! What are you talking about?
Me: you just said you had the best fish tacos.
Him: Oh right. I didn't eat your dinner. I ate the fish tacos. I thought you meant your dinner no I didn't eat dinner. You misunderstood me.

He thinks he is a brilliant liar. He probably laughs at my ignorance.

So as we see, this is a lot deeper than dinner or coffee or trains. These are ridiculous lies.
What is beyond belief is that I accept this behavior and have not left. 
I will be looking for a counselor to figure out why I accept this behavior and meanwhile get my ducks in a row.[/quote]

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