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[quote=Anonymous]DD, 11, is completely flat and shows no signs of puberty. She came to me recently and said her nipples were tender and asked if she could wear a bra. I very seriously doubt she needs one, but all of her friends are developing breasts and wearing bras, and she feels awkward about being small and underdeveloped for her age. So, I took her question seriously, talked to her about options, "until you develop a little more fully" (tank top, camisole, bra let, jog bra) and spent an afternoon shopping with her to find a couple different styles of bralets. Maybe she doesn't "need" one, but wearing a little sports bra/camisole makes her feel better about her body. More importantly, she came to me with her concerns, and I don't want to do anything to discourage that. As she goes through puberty, I want her to feel like she can come to me with questions and concerns, and that I will listen and take her seriously, rather than being dismissive or embarrassing her. [/quote]
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