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OP, I would listen to the deep distrust you're expressing and not focus on the child. Your wife jeopardized the relationship by cheating. That action gave birth to the grave distrust you now carry in your heart. I don't think your question has anything whatsoever to do with your darling boy. You're asking about the cancer in your heart. And, you don't need a test to know that your love for her and your investment in the marriage has been compromised. That's where you should place your attention. That boy is yours in every way imaginable. Keep your love for him separate and apart from your feelings toward your wife. Act accordingly. You can make decisions about how to move forward based on what she's done to break the love you shared, not what may have resulted from it re DS's parentage. Work by what you know: She cheated and deceived you willfully and without much apology. That is the punishable piece. Your son should never enter into this discussion. Your love for him is off limits and is to be safeguarded above all, treasured.

Disaggregate the two as you process this, OP.
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