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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you ask your mother for advice?[/quote]

My mother passed away when I was young. I will seek advice within my community. I don't think people on DCUM will understand arranged marriages. Thanks anyway[/quote]

OP I am Indian and am from a community where people have arranged marriages.

I think you need to figure out what you are willing to do and at what point you would be willing to leave him.  If you aren't willing to leave him, you need to find out how to make your current situation bearable, how to protect your child, and have a plan if it gets to a point where you need to leave.

Divorce rates are climbing even amongst arranged marriages.  You are employed and can make your own money.  Do you think your family would shun you if you were to divorce?[/quote]

OP - I am also Indian (not sure if you are, but many of my cousins have arranged marriages). I totally agree with the above PP. Do you have family support (emotional) if you were to leave him? You should also start recording what he says (write down date and time), just to show family how badly he treats you. I am so glad you are at a hotel right now.

Thinking of you.[/quote]

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