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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have never been on Ashley Madison, so the hack is irrelevant to me.

My DW suffered years of depression, starting in earnest sometime after the birth of DS #2.  Our sex life went to near zero, then zero when she went on meds which helped some.  By definition, we were in a sexless marriage.  She was a SAHM, so no income of her own.  If you have never been in this situation, you have no idea how the loneliness eats at your soul.

I suppose the absolutists would say the far more moral choice would be to divorce my wife and break up my home rather than find an outlet outside my marriage.  I would have asked for sole custody because my DW's mental illness could spike to the point she would be unable to care for both kids, at least transiently.  Or I should suffer a lack of intimacy for the rest of my days.

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You know, you can live without sex.  It won't kill you.  [/quote]

NP. people don't sign up for sexless marriages any more than people sign up for marriages racked by infidelity. One is expected to look the other way at one and not the other.[/quote]

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