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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have never been on Ashley Madison, so the hack is irrelevant to me.

My DW suffered years of depression, starting in earnest sometime after the birth of DS #2.  Our sex life went to near zero, then zero when she went on meds which helped some.  By definition, we were in a sexless marriage.  She was a SAHM, so no income of her own.  If you have never been in this situation, you have no idea how the loneliness eats at your soul.

I suppose the absolutists would say the far more moral choice would be to divorce my wife and break up my home rather than find an outlet outside my marriage.  I would have asked for sole custody because my DW's mental illness could spike to the point she would be unable to care for both kids, at least transiently.  Or I should suffer a lack of intimacy for the rest of my days.

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[b]Or you put it all out on the table, and be intimate with others, but transparent and honest with your DW.  [/b][/quote]

Only in America is a man seen as more admirable for initiating a divorce and breaking up his family and leaving his xwife poorer than discretely meeting an unmet need on the side.

You can have your Newt Gingrich morality.[/quote]

+1.   It's a shame that so many here are of the "throw the baby out with the bath water" mentality.  Any adult should know that LOVE and SEX are not mutually inclusive...[/quote]

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