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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have never been on Ashley Madison, so the hack is irrelevant to me.

My DW suffered years of depression, starting in earnest sometime after the birth of DS #2.  Our sex life went to near zero, then zero when she went on meds which helped some.  By definition, we were in a sexless marriage.  She was a SAHM, so no income of her own.  If you have never been in this situation, you have no idea how the loneliness eats at your soul.

I suppose the absolutists would say the far more moral choice would be to divorce my wife and break up my home rather than find an outlet outside my marriage.  I would have asked for sole custody because my DW's mental illness could spike to the point she would be unable to care for both kids, at least transiently.  Or I should suffer a lack of intimacy for the rest of my days.

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Or you put it all out on the table, and be intimate with others, but transparent and honest with your DW.  [/quote]
Although with her mental illness, putting it on the table could have a large impact on her mental stability.[/quote]

Ah, the "what she doesn't know is better for her" excuse.

Christ, cheaters are such cowards. More so when they pretend to be victims. Make some hard grownup decisions, dude. [/quote]

Well there are some very hard grownup decisions to be made when cheating. Which of the wet, hot ready-to-roll women should i bang?  Should I pay up for really nice hotel or keep it low key?  Should I get with the insanely brunette 10 miles further out or the very nice redhead a mere mile away?  These, my friend, are the difficult decisions in life. [/quote]

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