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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are any of you marrieds "out" as poly? Do your kids know? Or do people think your BF/GF is just a friend?[/quote]

We are out-ish. We are completely out in our circle of friends, and to 2 sets of parents (Husband's and Boyfriend's). Telling my parents will likely mean the end of our relationship, and I haven't been able to pull the trigger just yet. Our one child is still a baby, but we don't want her to have to keep our "secret". I will probably come out to my parents in the next year or two. I have never been comfortable with the idea of pretending my boyfriend is just a friend. I feel like it'd be completely disrespectful to our relationship, and his status as a member of our family. [/quote]

So who's the baby daddy?[/quote]

I'm going to assume your question is well intentioned. They are both her father. They were both with me through the pregnancy, they were both present at her birth, they have been there during the sleepless nights, and so on. We all know who contributed their genes, but it really doesn't matter. She has three parents and she is loved enormously. [/quote]

No, she doesn't. No matter what you say. She has biological parents who have a screw loose, and a boarder who is along for the ride.[/quote]

Is biology what makes a parent? Do you feel similarly about adoptive parents? Why do you think you get to have an opinion on who is and not a parent to my child?[/quote]

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