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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would absolutely ask.

Was this terrible thing done TO your Mom? That might be the only reason to not ask her. If it had nothing to do with your Mom, I don't see why you wouldn't ask.

[/quote] Because if she had wanted op to know she would have told sometime in the last 40 + years. [/quote]

But it's a two way street. For example, I know that my mother had an affair with one of her best friend's husbands. I know because my older sister saw them together in bed. I was SHOCKED when I found out, because my mother is normally a very moral and honest person.

She has never mentioned this to me, probably because it is really none of my business, the couple eventually divorced and are now dead,  and how does someone even bring that up after so many years? But I would feel 100 percent okay with asking her about it one day if I become insatiably curious, or if I find myself in a place where I might need her insight on infidelity. As adults who love and trust each other, I know that she and I could discuss this respectfully, even if she told me to MMOB.

I guess to me it's not really the be-all and end-all if somebody didn't mention it. They may also be not discussing painful topics because they don't want to burden YOU with unpleasant information about relatives.[/quote]

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