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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the friend was a guy with a domestic assault in his past about to marry some wonderful woman, would posters be giving the same advice to let bygones be bygones?  http://time.com/2921491/hope-solo-women-violence/[/quote]

If the guy had one episode ten years ago (where it wasn't even clear he injured someone, was convicted, etc.) and nothing since, I wouldn't be insisting that everyone know about it. Sometimes people actually do change.[/quote]

I don't know about this. I mean, obviously I don't know you, PP, or what you'd say about it personally, but when I was dating a guy who revealed his ex got a restraining order against him during their divorce 5 year earlier, PLENTY of people stepped up to tell me I was taking a chance on him, that he might be fine when a relationship was casual or going along swimmingly, but there was evidence that he apparently didn't take serious relationships ending well. [/quote]

She caused a scratch, and we don't even know if any kind of legal action was ever taken against her. That's a little different. I'm guessing your ex did more than just grab his ex's arm when she tried to walk away during a fight.[/quote]

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