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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here...during the "courtship" process, I pay for all of the dates.  Once dating, I'd say it's about 80/20--I pay for most of the dates and she'll chip in with a few special treats.  The lines are also blurred once you've been dating for a while because of groceries/expenses/etc.  I may foot the bill for a Whole Foods trip, but then she may pick up Chipotle or Happy Hour.[/quote]
Should I continue to offer to split? Is that appreciated? Do I assume he'll pay- that would just make me feel like an ass.[/quote]

Stop asking to split the check. I never split a check with someone I was romantically interested in. Instead I'd informally start switching off paying for the check or at least paying for some of our activities. I think it's super unromantic to split a check. I split checks with friends not potential boyfriends. [/quote]

Sounds like you need to get over this notion of what you find "romantic." You're splitting a bill. Another woman over-analyzing everything.[/quote]

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