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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused.  If your sister was buried - if she has a literal grave that you can go to and actually see and touch her tomb stone - why do you think that she is still alive? [/quote]

This--what makes you think they would have all of this, a funeral, a tomb everything if she had lived? OP, let it go. I'm sorry your sister died and you never knew her. [/quote]

Exactly!  Why the hell would they have a grave for her if she wasn't dead?  And, as far as transporting her out of state, she was likely cremated.  Even the cremated remains of an adult fit easily into a carry on.  [/quote]

Again, if she did live, I do NOT think my parents know! I do NOT believe they gave her up.

I know my parents quite well. They would not have had her cremated. They would not have transported her themselves (certainly not in a carry on bag!). they would not have held an actual funeral - it would have been a private burial. I never even knew that she had a grave site until a couple of years ago when I came across a picture of it. [/quote]

So they had a burial with an empty coffin, that they didn't know was empty because the hospital lied to them about the baby being dead and then stuffed random stuff in the coffin to make it seem like there was something in there so they could have a private burial?? Then they took pictures of where they believe the baby is buried? You're making less and less sense, OP and your selfishness, lack of respect for your parents, and delusions are simply breathtaking. Get some help from a qualified therapist.

That the baby died during delivery or before makes absolutely no difference on what a doctor would say about subsequent deliveries. If it was an unexplained death--which you say it was, the doctor would have made a decision on future deliveries based on your mom's health at that time and that's it. On the not knowing that she might have lived, if she died during delivery, what makes you believe they only dreamed the horrible, horrible silence of the delivery room. Your mom didn't have a c-section while delivering this baby, she was awake. Trust me, as someone who will forever remember how quiet it was when my dead daughter was born, I have no doubt that she's dead.

On the hospital, it makes sense that they would get it together to visit a dying relative there but not want anyone getting treated there. I don't want, as I've said before to go back to that hospital ever but you know what though, if someone I loved were dying of cancer there, I'd suck it up and go say goodbye or even suck it up and go there sit there while someone I loved had cancer treatments and needed their hand held (and keep my mouth shut about the trauma that occurred there for me).

You really need to let this go OP.[/quote]

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