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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dawned on me today. She has good cause (although not the typical cause) but never really struck me until now. We're in therapy ostensibly to get through a couple large issues, but I think she's decided that they are close to insurmountable. Even if we get over them, I don't see a path for her to love me like she did several years back.  Her couple comments about that time and before in counseling have not been inspiring or particularly misty-eyed on her part, even though we were inseparable.

Her negative body language and thinly veiled attitude of "*sigh*I have better things to do" on the few occasions we have time alone together are telling.  OTOH when she comes home from seeing friends or drinks with colleagues she, her happiness is clearly evident. But the rest of the week she's oh so tired.

We may stumble through therapy so we can be comfortable that we have explored that avenue, but the best I can see coming out the other side is more well adjusted roommates and co parents to our DDs than we are now.  And then divorce in a couple years on her motion rather than near the end of this year. God I hope I'm wrong. [/quote]

She has a lover.[/quote]

I agree, sounds like she gets her emotional and physical connection now through someone else.  It's not necessarily the end, but will be difficult to win her back.  [/quote]

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