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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing...even if you have the right to be annoyed---you have the angels on your side---does that mean you HAVE to get annoyed?

All things considered, doesn't sound like that big of a deal. Kid and MIL like each other, everybody is family. The MIL offered to take the kid and get dinner.

Maybe she is not great at cues and boundaries, but in the end, who is getting hurt most by choosing to look at and focus on only the negatives? 
 
Let it go, for real. Again, I am not saying OP didn't have the right to be annoyed. Objectively, she did. But that is only at the surface level.

Getting spun up because you're right, in light if a sitch that is soooo not a big deal, just makes you and everyone around you miserable.

Does she have a husband? Other family around? Or are you guys it? Seems like she may just want to be with you an dis looking for excuses.

I  really can't imagine going through life so flappable all the time. I would find it exhausting.

My manic MIL, who has called me fat, intruded in our lives, and just regularly been a pain in the ass is on her way here right now. I can choose to get annoyed at the shit that will never change, or I  can drink a glass of wine and laugh it at all and be evil and know hey, it can't last forever.[b] She'll be dead someday. [/b]

yikes.
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