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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do judge the OW when a man leaves his wife and children for her. Then she does have some accountability.[/quote]
Why would a wife want a husband who wants to be with someone else? This is what I don't get. Some women have zero self-worth, then complain that their men don't want them.

I am not clear on OW's accountablity here. All three are adults capable of making their choices.[/quote]

Except because it's done in secret, only DH and OW actually have free will choices.  That's why it's so offensive to me.  The wife doesn't get to choose. Yes, I get that the husband and wife have an obligation to treat each other well.  This is obvious:  if the husband doesn't feel treated well, it's in the OPEN.  That is, it's not a secret.  He has every right to negotiate better treatment.  When is that courtesy extended to DW?  It's extended to the OW who can decide and weigh in on getting involved.  That's why the OW doesn't quite avoid full responsibility.  She is at least afforded the option of choices, with access to the full view (I don't buy getting innocently deceived - if you don't know friends and family and haven't been to his place, you shouldn't be sleeping with him)[/quote]

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