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[quote=Anonymous]I recommend seeing a good therapist. They can help you engage in a thoughtful dialogue with your wife about this. You have good reasons for wanting to do this. I'm sure she has good reasons for not wanting to. Maybe through a few therapy sessions, the two of you could come to an agreement. Your wife might have a lot of misgivings that more information could help her get past.  She also needs to really hear you on your desire to help and why. But to answer your question, of course it's a breach of trust to father a child outside of your marriage without her knowledge. You know that. I'm presuming you've already raised it with her--either directly or indirectly--which is why you're sure she'd say no. That's why I suggest some limited counseling. Seriously, they are good at getting people through difficult conversations. You don't want to get into a big fight. Who knows what kinds of emotions this is triggering for your wife. Do the responsible thing and have a conversation about it--and there are family planning counselors who specialize in this. Good luck.[/quote]

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