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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We do have a child, and no currently my husband has decided he does NOT need help and does NOT need to get better. I do hear of people with BPD coming to terms with the DX and doing what they can to manage their condition. I do not hold out hope for my soon to be ex husband because he has committed to doing it "his way" which consists of doing whatever he wants and smoking weed. :([/quote] I'm the PP with the BPD ex-fiance. I don't know if they aren't aware of their issues, or feel they'll be destroyed (abandoned) if they admit any flaw. Certainly the overt blame for any problems always fell on the 'healthy' partner. Oddly, smoking weed was the single thing that seemed to alleviate her all consuming anxiety, fear or paranoia...your stbex is likely self-medicating. Yeah, your DD may mourn the loss of the old dad, but she's better off growing up out from underneath of a toxic person. [/quote]
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