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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 16 year old DD has a had a boyfriend (that we like very much) since September.  I finally asked and she told me that they were in a sexual relationship but not to worry because they went to her doctor (gyno) together and she is on the pill.  They have sex in her room.

Okay - yikes!  I'm very glad she is responsible and went to the doctor with her boyfriend to get on birth control but...  my daughter is having sex while DH and I are downstairs watching TV!!!

[b]DD is a top student, always ranked first or second in her class, and an accomplished ballet dancer.  I have always been very lax with curfews/rules because she has always been so responsible.  [/b]This sex thing just threw me for a loop.  [/quote]

Yet another parent who raised her child with zero morals, but hey, as long as she makes top grades and is "an accomplished ballet dancer" (oh, wow!!!), that is all that matters.

Thanks for the warning to this mother of young girls. Yours is an end result I would consider a complete failure.[/quote]

You and your parents are the only moral failures here. The sad part is you'll never understand why.[/quote]

Oh, really? Then why don't you explain it to me, in your great wisdom. Yes, if my 16 year old was having sex (IN MY HOME, WHILE I WAS DOWNSTAIRS IGNORING HER WHILE I'M WATCHING TV), you'd better believe, that is a complete moral failure on the part of the parent.[/quote]

I'm not the OP, but WOW.

A daughter who wants to do a pretty normal thing, in a relationship with someone her parents know and trust, who responsibly goes to the doctor, communicates with her boyfriend about it and then actually tells her mom about it is "a complete moral failure"? What would you call a girl who sneaks around, having sex with lots of different people without using protection?

Also, the dig about OP ignoring her daughter? Seriously? The girl is 16. Do you actually expect her mom to hover over her at all times and never do anything in the house in a different room from the daughter?[/quote]

Hell, yes! I expect the "parents" (and I'm using that word generally here, I realize) to have some knowledge of what is going on in their own home involving their underage minor daughter. Or is it asking too much to have them give up an episode of "DWTS?"[/quote]

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