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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] In the end, we had a lovely time, but it really wasn't what it could have been. But my cousins showed me what their priorities are. They always expect me to show up to make "family memories" together at their life events and their children's life events. But they are teaching their children that "family memories" are made only at their convenience, and they have no responsibility to reciprocate. [/quote] I don't understand this. Show up at your cousins' life events and children's life events if you think that's the right thing to do; don't if you don't. The argument that they should show up for yours because you show up for theirs seems like score-keeping to me. Plus you can't control their actions; you can only control your own expectations.[/quote]
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