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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is is why I SAH--so that there is always one of us available to make sure the kids are covered.  On any given day, my DH can cover kid appointments/emergencies/activities, he just can't do it (on weekdays) with the regularity required when you have kids.

That being said, he does the majority of the kid stuff when he is home and has done about half of the Christmas shopping for the kids (Amazon makes it pretty easy).[/quote]

This is also a big part of why I became a SAHM. Five years later, though, I'm really missing my career and want to go back to work, except the process of getting back into my old field while also being the default parent and having a biglaw partner husband who doesn't have a lot of flexibility is daunting at best. [/quote]

I WOH but this is exactly why I never judge anyone for WOH, SAH or whatever.  DH works and travels a lot but I have a ridiculously flexible job, and my parents are very, very, hands on.  DD goes to preschool, and my dad watches DS and takes care of preschool pickup and drop off.  On her days off of work, mom pitches in (and is retiring to help take care of the kids too).  They often call on the weekends to ask if they can come watch the kids for a few hours in case we have things we would like to do. There is no way on earth we'd be able to manage without my work flexibility and my parents.  Of course, I am still the default parent and it makes me crazy, oh well...[/quote]

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