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[quote=Anonymous]The problem you have is that you are completely convinced that your wife is the problem. You think she has become lazy and disinterested and is at fault for not making money and not cleaning to the level of satisfaction you yourself enjoy while you are the poor victim making the donuts with the weight of the world on your shoulders.

If you want your relationship and home life to change, then you need to do more than point out all her faults and all of your disappointment and think about how the hell you can step up and be part of a solution. I guarantee your wife is not thrilled with you if every day you come home and bitch about how unclean the house is and how she needs to go get a job. And if you say no, I don't do that, I'm supportive -- your resentment is probably coming out in other ways. I am sure she fully comprehends your feelings on the situation, but I'm not convinced you're thinking of hers other than how she can change to fit better with what YOU want. 
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