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[quote=Anonymous]"You know, that has to be one of the smallest perks I've heard of. These kids have to deal with the emotional wreckage of divorce, and a teensy benefit they get is that they have iPads and such (like most normal children in the US). You have admitted you are doing well, so why would you even think of causing an issue for the ex wife, who is now functioning as a single mom? I implore you (and I'm sure you will like this option much less than the sycophantic ones) to put yourself in her shoes and think of how you would respond if your husband decides one day to leave you, and you will have to raise your child with him on your own? Do you really, genuinely think that $500 a month would be enough? Especially for a teenager, who is going to innately be status conscious and have a lot going on?" I think if dad is spending 500 per mo on kid and mom is spending 500 per mo on kid, on expenses that do not include her housing, medical expenses, or extra curricular activites, she is probably ok. Also I have given really honest answers the whole time. Also I am not sure why you think the grand plan is to undermine the mom. There's been no talk of amending support, cutting back etc. The whole issue is that I am upset she doesn't pay us what she is legally supposed to. No one is losing their soccer lessons or what have you. To the person who is ENRAGED about the lice shampoo, sorry you misunderstood. The mom bought the Walmart lice shampoo. I took DSD to the salon for the $120 professional treatment. I am upset bc the ex was too cheap to take care of it properly. [/quote]
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