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[quote=Anonymous]If you want a quick/easy starting point, I would consider suggesting to him that you BOTH read/re-read the 5 love languages.

Give yourselves a deadline (1-2 weeks).

Then discuss.  Make sure you talk about what your love language is and give him a chance to talk about his.  Have a productive discussion about what you feel he can give you to help fill up your love tank.  Offer the same to him -- what can you do so he feels more loved.

If this resolves your problem, GREAT.  If it doesn't, I think you'll have crossed a lot off your list of possibilities.  If the problems persist after this attempt, I think you are looking at someone who doesn't see any need to change his behavior in the relationship.  This may stem from some sort of past trauma, being gay, or from the fact that he is having an affair/porn addition/internet addiction.  Once you're at this point, you'll know what isn't the problem and be able to decide what you want to do to try to face the bigger problem -- counseling, leaving, or just living with it.  [/quote]

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