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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dont really know if I believe the men who say their wife is much more attractive than OW. i think saying that makes them feel they are putting their wife on a pedestal even tho they are unfaithful. Otherwise why wouldn't u just go find a tree stump w a hole in it. You really have sex w someone you dont find attractive? I dont believe it[/quote]

DH here, let me assure you DW is more attractive than affair partners.  Here is why.

I am conventionally attractive, but also financially successful.  So I can attract a fairly high quality mate.  If I were divorced, my next girlfriend would be just as attractive as DW, maybe more.  But most women don't want to be an affair partner.  So there are average looking women who I can attract a lot easier.  Which is why women say they can get a hotter affair partner than their husbands.  In the market for pure sexual relations, women are in demand and can attract a high quality mate.  In the market for long term providers, attractive and financially successful men have the upper hand.

This isn't to say my affair partners aren't attractive, they definitely are.  For what they lack in pure looks compared to DW, they make up in spades with enthusiasm.[/quote]

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