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[quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the idea that just because someone is family, you can be less considerate of them. Or even if someone is single and childless (which others have mentioned), that they can give you their time.

All of that is irrelevant. People should be kind and considerate to each other - family, kids, single, employed, not employed, SAHM or not, or whatever.

It's incumbent upon the brother/SIL to at LEAST offer to pay for a convenient plane ticket, and a stocked fridge, petty cash for takeout, etc.

Of course family should help each other out, but when someone's helping you, you should minimized it being a burden on them. It doesn't matter if OP is only taking care of the kids in the evenings - it's still her time that she's giving up, and traveling to make things easy for her sibling.

When someone's helping you, you do whatever you can to make things easier for them. That's the bottom line.

Thankfully most of the people in this thread seem to think similarly, but some of you sound like users/takers who probably use guilt to take advantage of nice family members. Just because someone's family, doesn't mean you treat them with less regard.

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